Saturday, July 9, 2011

oh boy, guess what else I am!

Well I'm reading about CODEPENDANCY!!  Hooray, I am that, I am, I am, I am.

Here is a great link:   http://www.coda.org/tools4recovery/patterns2.htm
Everything here is copy-rited so I won't do what I want to do which is cut, paste and highlight stuff.   Well, I am printing it out for my own use.

Patterns and Characteristics of Codependency:  I'm all here, Every bit of it is me, except for most of the "control" section.

Is this surprising?  Heck no.  My mom was/is codependent in her loyalty of my step-father.  I was abused in several different environments by several different male figures in my life.  Who wouldn't be codependent after that.

What's embarassing is that I exhibit signs at work.  I know I'm not well liked by most at worked.  I can see why, I must be annoying as hell.

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